How do you know if your in love with someone or if you're in love with them. What is lust? What is love?
Lust is a more easily defined word it is defined as a very strong sexual desire or having very strong sexual desire for someone,Or an intense longing. We often mistaken the two. Have you ever sat and thought about someone for an extended period about the way they smelled or how their lips looked and how you imagine they taste it or how it would feel to have sex with a big booty girl? Whatever the case is, it's being lustful. You're objectifying the subject.
What is a person? Are they a collection of body parts? Are we made of plastic? Or are we a whole person with a soul, full of all the things that make a person human. Strengths, weaknesses, quarks, fears, insecurities, anxieties, vulnerabilities, likes, dislikes, hopes and dreams?
The answer is obvious, let it Escape so many. Lost and are six and skin saturated culture Kama whether by conscious choice or more years of overexposure that is conditioned and addiction, many people view the other six as objects to be consumed. , Menzie on a page, a TV screen or seen in real life. It's easy to stare at a photo or movie of a nude person. Matter of fact they don't have to be nude and create the perfect fantasy of them. But where do you live? You live in real life, not in fantasy. We all live in real life. So what happens when the way we view people is completely foreign in fantasy? Problems. They're one thing being in a long-term relationship like marriage teaches you, it shows the full Humanity of a woman and a full Humanity of a man. There's a reason marriage now says " for better or worse " in them. marriage is guaranteed to bring with its the best size of a person as well as the worst.
Once you move in with someone you begin to see all the balls. You know what they look like when tired, stressed out, stinky breath or not make it. These are things you don't see when you're hooking up and are not real serious about the relationship. You don't see the flaws and a receptionist at the counter you're flirting with. Fantasy takes over and you assume this person has none of these human imperfections. The reality is sex is not about body parts. It's about trust safety and commitment things that are completely foreign to lust.
Lust is a desire or appetite that is indulged and fed as one looks at another person. Women list as well but we don't typically do it by logging simply for a physical body, and image, or a sexual release. Our temptation life more directly and a man giving us attention, affection, and a feeling of emotional intimacy and connectedness. This closeness is generally what allows a woman to open up sexually and what Spurs us on to sexual activity.
So basically men will lust by indulging the physical and women more often lust by indulging the emotional. This is not to say that men don't care about the emotional, but generally men separate the emotional from the physical and many times when it comes to having sex or cheating that is exactly what takes place. Women are objectified, meaning we are treated as a sexual tools and vehicle for selfish pleasure rather than one to whom they want to commit themselves to love unconditionally and permanently. Lust only takes, and it destroys never delivering what it promises and always leaving a person empty and feeling compelled to lust again. It's very addictive and consuming, and it is such a powerful weapon of the enemy. That's why sex is a billion dollar industry.
See love, love is different. Love demands sacrifice that can't be found and self-centeredness. You can give without loving, but you can never love without giving. Love requires that we give what we value most our hearts, mind, soul, and strength. The Greeks called Love " The Madness of the Gods". modern psychologists Define it "as the strong desire for emotional Union with another person". But what, actually is love? It means so many different things to different people. song writers have described it "whenever you're near I hear a symphony ". Shakespeare said, "love is blind and and lovers cannot see". Aristotle said " love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies".
